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Dealing With Emotional Factors Leading To Debt

Why Does It Take So Long For Me To Pay Off My Debt…And
How Can I Speed It Up?
There are many reasons why your debt seems to be ongoing for a lifetime. Many of the
following reasons may be familiar to you, things you have said to yourself, your
spouse or others. Perhaps you will see something here that will trigger a new thought
pattern in the approach to becoming debt free.
What’s Your Plan?
Most people, although well intentioned, have absolutely no plan for becoming debt free. They
may occasionally pay an extra $10, $20 or more on a particular debt thinking what a large
difference that will make. That is a good move but it’s the perfect example of the
proverbial drop in the bucket.
A good plan includes many components. Some, and I repeat myself, some of the components
are:
· Determine the amount of discretionary income you have to work with each month.
· Know every detail about each debt you have. Some of these details are the rate you
are paying on each debt, whether the debt is revolving or installment in type, balance
on each debt, length of time or payments remaining on each debt and whether the debt
has a fixed rate or is an adjustable rate. This will be discussed in later chapters.
· Determine a strategy. Which debt is first, 2nd and so on until you are debt free. This is
computed using Factorial Math. This requires a computer program or a plan that
includes Factorial Math within that program. This will be discussed in later chapters.
· Get educated on strategy. Debt payoff strategies are not “one size fits all.”
· Find out where your mortgage fits into your plan since interest is calculated in a
different manner than your other debt.
· Think “long term.” You didn’t get into debt over night and you certainly won’t be able
to get out overnight.
· Increasing income and reducing outgoing fits will help you but certainly is not
enough to bring the results you are searching for. It is a component of a good plan,
not the total answer.
It’s enough to make you want to drop your pencil, put away your calculator and go
outside in the sunshine and feel the fresh cool breeze on your face isn’t it.
Unfortunately, that’s what most people do. They give up before they ever get started. Therein
lies the problem with why most people don’t have a plan today.
It’s just the way it’s supposed to be.
Our first experience with debt comes to most of us between the ages of 16 and 18 years of
age. It’s called “our first car.” Although we may have a job after school and during the summer
there just isn’t enough income to pay cash for the car and insurance coverage. After all, if I
were to pay cash I might have to save for a year or more to get enough money to pay for both
the car plus a year’s insurance. After all, there are clothes to be bought. There’s money
needed for fun and trips and all around good times to maintain ones social status. What if the
car breaks down? I’ll need money for repairs.
Enter Mom and Dad or the Grandparents who either co-sign or front the money for the
car. Often times, Mom or Day will take on the loan assuming that we will honor our word and
make regular payments each month. What quite often happens next is a scenario many of
you may already have experienced so I won’t go into that here. Even if you haven’t
experienced it yet you still know what comes next.
So here we are age 16 to 18 with our first debt. We make the first 3 payments on time then
something comes up and we need the money and skip the 4th payment. Our payments start
getting sporadic and so it goes until we either get the car paid off or Mom and Dad just
give up and pay it off.
Now we’re 21 or older and we have our first credit card. We manage to maintain that card
somehow and we get a 2nd card. As we get older we acquire more cards. We marry, increase
the joint incomes and get more cards and more cars and more stuff for the happy
home (plus babies) and one by one the debt mounts.
Years pass – we decide “Hey, we don’t need all these payments, all this debt” but we
rationalize that we are, after all, doing what everyone else is doing so that’s just the way it has
to be. “We’ll pay everything off when we get the raise or the better job.”
When 5 to 10 more years have passed we then resign ourselves to the fact that being is debt
is simply the way everyone lives their lives and we will be in debt forever after all, how could
we possible get all this debt paid off. It’s just the way it’s supposed to be.
Let me say that there are ways to accomplish complete debt freedom without sacrificing your
lifestyle.
Availability of Credit
Until recently, the availability of credit was a contributing factor to why we rack up so much
debt. For most of our lives we’ve come to expect one or more envelopes in the daily mail
offering us additional credit cards or some type of additional credit. You passed on some and
accepted others. Over the months and years the credit cards in your wallet or purse grew to a
surprisingly high amount along with your available credit.
Some obtained new credit to help manage and pay for existing credit going down a road with
the brick wall at the end. At this writing, credit is difficult to obtain. We are forced to utilize and
live on the credit we have. Some people with equity lines have had their lines frozen. We now
need to manage more payments with the same or less amount of income, not a pretty
sight.
The thought of becoming debt free sometimes becomes hard to imagine when one is juggling
so many payments. I would like to tell you that you should remain hopeful, do your
research, and watch for more information from us regarding the methods and
possibilities for becoming debt free. If you are motivated and persistent you can live a
debt free lifestyle.
Should you be offered new credit, do not accept it. The thought of new credit may seem to be
helpful at first but just remember; new credit was a contributing factor in bringing you to where
you are today.
I trust my bank.
Oops! “When we really needed that new car our bank or credit union gave us our very own
great low interest loan. They really did us a favor!” If that’s not what you said, I would guess
that it is what you thought at one time or another. You may or may not have actually needed
that new car. I say that simply for your consideration. You may have needed it; then again,
you may have simply wanted it.
In any case, the bank or credit union thought it was a good idea so let’s do it, right. I’ve been
there. Perhaps we all have. Its so easy. Lending institutions have slowly convinced us
that debt is normal and just a part of being a good American.
We are bombarded with ads for more debt through TV, newspapers, the Internet and by mail.
There’s so much media coming at us constantly we begin to believe that it’s “normal” to be in
debt for most, if not all our lives.
It’s our responsibility to look beyond the advertising at the big debt picture and begin
perhaps even with baby steps to filter this out. This is one of the first steps to acquiring a
mindset that it really is possible to be debt free.
Principal and Interest
Compound Interest, simple interest, amortization, fully amortized, and many other financial
terms will not be discussed in detail here. There will be some discussion of these in other
chapters but just a reminder, our purpose is to leave you with the hope and the
knowledge that it is possible to live debt free.
In a perfect world, what if you could cancel all the interest off of all your debts? Every
dollar you paid would reduce principal. How long would it then take you to pay everyone off?
It sounds great doesn’t it? We all know that it isn’t a perfect world but, what if you could
cancel forever a large portion of your interest charges on your debt. How great would that be?
Hold that thought as you read the rest of this book.
We Need Help!
Think back from your elementary school days through college. How many of the students
were really good at math in any given math class. Not many right. Formulating a plan for
becoming debt free is a struggle for the best of us, even those who have always
thought they had the gift of mathematics.
Without a computer and the proper software it is impossible or nearly impossible for the
average person to devise a plan, work that plan on a monthly basis is such a way as to stay
on target for becoming debt free. Going back to school won’t get it done. Buying a book won’t
get it done. Neither will listening to the financial media gurus. While all this good information,
very little of it ties together for you, so you remain stuck, head in hands with a figurative
question mark above your head.
Do we have the answer? Well, yes we do. In fact, there are several ways which we will
share with you. We will also share the ultimate strategy that we have found to work in the
fastest way possible. First, we will break down debt and all that it entails. Then, we will give
you a better understanding of debt, what it is, how we arrive at a life of servitude because of
debt, but most of all, we wish to give you hope and instill the knowledge that you don’t need to
spend the rest of your life suffering under that debt servitude. Don’t worry. We will offer you
the solution. We wouldn’t want you to be left in the dark. Just hang in there and keep
reading. You’re already making progress by thinking about your problem in a new light.
OK, I got all that. So what do I do next?
At this point we want you to simply understand that you don’t have to remain in debt for
the rest of your life. There are ways to become debt free with grace and ease without
disturbing your lifestyle to any great extent.
In order to adopt this way of thinking you will need to accept what I like to call a Paradigm
Shift. Think about it. We are asking you to go from thinking, “debt to the grave is normal,” to “I
can live most of the rest of my life debt free.” Wouldn’t you call that a Paradigm Shift?
So, start imagining your life debt free. What would you be able to do with the income you
are receiving right now if it wasn’t all going out the door to pay off your debts? How
would it feel to have the peace of mind that comes from owning your own home free and
clear? It’s OK to start thinking this way because we are going to show you how to realize
those dreams in less time than you probably think.