This Way To Debt

Mortgage Financing Made Easy

I.  Lending Guidelines

Understanding Credit

There are three C’s of lending: credit, capacity and collateral.  This section will focus on credit.  You must understand what lenders are looking for in order to qualify you for a loan.  How you pay your bills makes a big difference in the programs you qualify for.  More importantly, it affects the interest rate you are charged.  It is called risk based pricing.  Banks and other lending institutions charge higher interest rates for customers with “spotty” credit.  For example, a person who always makes their payments on time and has a reasonable amount of credit available will get a lower rate than someone who pays their bills late and has too much revolving debt.  Most important is your payment history on mortgage loans and other installment loans.  Read on to learn more.

Installment loans differ from revolving accounts in how the contract is written.  A car loan is an installment loan.  It has a fixed repayment period with a consistent monthly payment.  Credit cards are considered revolving loans.  They do not have a set payment amount.  It varies to the amount of your charged balance.  It has a maximum allowed, or credit limit.  The payment is calculated based on the interest rate and current balance in any 30 day cycle.  Understanding the difference will be important in helping you assess your credit profile.  A mortgage loan in most cases is an installment loan.  We will discuss revolving mortgage accounts or lines of credit later in the book.

It is easier to obtain a copy of your credit report today more so than ever before.  I recommend that everyone take advantage of the free options available.   Periodically checking on your credit file helps to ensure no one is fraudulently using your credit information.  You will be able to see what trade lines (companies) are reporting to your credit file.  Any liens or judgments that may have been filed against you will report.  If you have ever filed a bankruptcy, that information is public record and reports to all three of the major credit reporting agencies in the country.  Medical collections can also be seen.  It is important for you to know what information lenders are reviewing in order to make a lending decision based on your loan request.

Most companies report their loan records to credit reporting agencies.  Utility companies and some smaller institutions such as credit unions, may not report.  Lenders typically review the last twelve months of your payment activity.  They will look to see how many late payments you have had during that time.  What a lender considers late, and that which is reported, is greater than 30 days past due.  For example, if your mortgage payment is due on June 1^st, it would report as 30 days delinquent as of July 2^nd.   Many people juggle which payments to make within their monthly budget.  I strongly recommend that you pay your bills in this order:  mortgage, other installments (car), revolving, medical, and collections last.  Let me explain why.

A collection account is one that reached a point of default where the lending institution writes it off as a loss.  Other collection agencies by the “paper” or loan and begin to make collection efforts to make their money.  Most collection agencies will settle for a lesser amount if negotiated properly.  Because the debt has already reported to the credit bureaus as a charge off or loss, the damage is done.  The collection agencies may report the debt again on your credit report.  Paying that last makes sense.  Focus on maintaining what is most important, shelter and transportation.  Your consistent payments efforts are what lenders call, a history.  Having a history of late payments tells a lender that you will probably pay late in the future.  Therefore, they price your loan higher for that risk.  A proven payment record gives the lender confidence you will pay your loan back on time.  You have a proven history of payments.

Consider how many trade-lines you have reporting and what the high credit limits are.  If you have open revolving accounts and you are not using them, close them.  This is important because from a lenders perspective, that is less available credit.  A lender considers what your capacity for additional debt could be.  If utilized, it could affect your current ability to pay.  We will discuss your ability to pay in the debt to income section.  Having revolving credit cards with high credit amounts tells a lender you could choose to charge that much.  If the account is closed, the trade-line will only report the history of your payments, but show you no longer have access to additional debt.  You can’t charge any more.

If you decide to co-sign for someone, recognize that the loan will affect your personal credit.  It will report on your credit file just as your own debt would.  If the person you co-signed for doesn’t make the payments on time, it will report as delinquent debt and can damage your credit.  I am sure you have all heard about your credit score.  It is a scoring model to help lenders assess credit and the risks involved with each consumer.  Most models consider the higher your credit score, the better your credit worthiness.  There are several different models, the most common is FICO.  There are thousands of factors that affect your FICO score.  A credit inquiry is one of them.

When you fill out an application for a loan, it reports as an inquiry.  An application is almost automatically followed by the lender “pulling” your credit report.  That means they must assess your credit history and allow the lender to make a lending decision.  The inquiry will report whether or not you are approved for the loan you were applying.  A lender considers credit inquiries with an implied risk.  The more you are “shopping” the more credit exposure you could take on.  If you have multiple inquiries, but no resulting trade lines, that is another inherent risk associated with your credit profile.

A thin credit file is not always good because it doesn’t establish an ability to pay.  If nothing reports to your credit file the lender has no way to know how you will pay in the future.  It is important to establish credit trade-lines even if you don’t need to.  For example, if you have an option to purchase a large appliance on a same as cash option, take it.  It will report as a trade-line and allow you to make monthly payments.  You may be able to afford to pay cash, but if you need to build a credit file, this is a great way to start.  As well, applying for credit cards is not a bad thing.  Having one or two cards that you can use, but can afford to pay off monthly, will help you to establish a history of credit and payment activities.

In summary, a lender will review your entire credit profile when making a lending decision.  You represent low risk when you have made all your payments on time and don’t have too much debt available to you.  On the other hand, you are a risk if you have shown an inability to make consistent monthly payments or have allowed a debt to be written off as a loss.  Bankruptcies are a whole story in themselves that will not be addressed in this publication.  Finding a way to handle debt and pay it off in half the time is what United First Financial can do.  Be mindful of the damage a late payment can have on your ability to qualify for a loan or get the best rate available.  Your history will determine your future.

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Why does it take So Long for Me to Pay off My Debt?

Debt is a part of our everyday lives. Are world goes on because of debt. Since the beginning of time, we have made a system, to have things that we couldn’t afford, and set up a debt payment to pay it back. Weather is was a horse or a house, we find a way to get it and pay for it on time.

If I were to buy a home, the bank would give me a loan to purchase that property, and issue me a mortgage. This word mortgage comes from two root words, “mort”, comes from the Latin word meaning dead or death, and “gage”, means a pledge to forfeit something of value if the debt is not paid. So this mortgage is literally a death pledge. If I don’t pay my mortgage, they will take my home, or something of value. If I pay my mortgage the pledge is dead also. Either way, through the payment or nonpayment of the mortgage, the pledge is a dead pledge.

Now homes are not as valuable as they once were. Back in times past you might be able to barter something else of value, like one of your children, or an animal, but today we are much more sophisticated.

The beginnings of a mortgage system have been found, as early as 1190. English common law included a law that would protect a creditor by giving him an interest in his debtor’s property. According to this law, the mortgage was a conditional sale. Although the creditor held title to the property, the debtor could, in the event the debt wasn’t paid, sell the property to recover his money.

Doesn’t sound like things have changed too much today!

We live under a free enterprise system called capitalism.  Capitalism is an economic system in which wealth and the means of producing wealth are privately owned and controlled, rather than state owned and controlled. The one downfall of capitalism that can bring the whole structure down is greed. We are seeing plenty of that right now in our economy, and many think that we are heading to a socialistic society, where the government controls and runs everything.

If I have a 30 year mortgage, for 200,000 dollars, at a 6% interest rate, your payments will be 1199.10 a month. Now, let’s examine how this exactly works.

Mortgages today are designed specifically to benefit the bank. They are set up so that all the interest that you pay the bank will be made in the front end of the loan. The loan is top heavy with interest, and that interest belongs to the bank, not you. This is no accident. The bank makes sure that they will make their interest off the loan, before you make any payments to the principle. And there is a lot of interest for the bank to take. There is a name for this interest. It’s called compound interest.

Your mortgage is a closed end loan. It is interest which is working for the bank and not you. When you closed on your home, you were given an amortization schedule. This schedule is a schedule of every one of your payments to the bank, from your first one to the last one. If it is a 30 year mortgage, it will be for 360 months, a fifteen year mortgage will be 180 months. It will show you the amount of your payment that goes to interest, and the amount that goes to principle for every month that you have this mortgage. This schedule cannot be altered or deviated from. You must make every payment, as scheduled, on the date it is scheduled for. Usually there will be a late charge added to those payments that are late.

But what if I came up short one month and could not pay the full payment. Could I ask the bank to let me pay just 1100 dollars this month? Well, I could ask them that, but they would say no. The full amount is due every month and they will take nothing less.

Just as your mortgage is an example of a closed end loan, your credit card is an example of an open end loan. If you were to go out and charge up 500.00 dollars on your credit card, but when that credit card bill was due, you paid the full 500 dollars, how much interest would you pay on that credit card? If you said, none, you are absolutely right. You would pay zero, because the interest that you pay on a credit card is simple interest. It is figured on the average daily balance that you carry on that card. No balance, no interest. You can make as many payments that you want on your card. You can move money in and out of the balance; there usually are no limits as to how many times you can do this.

Interest is a part of our everyday lives. It’s everywhere, and it is what makes our economic system move. Interest can work for you or it can work against you. Albert Einstein said, “Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world. Those that understand it, earn it, and those that don’t, pay it.” The banks certainly understand it and have been using it since they first existed. They get you and me into a death pledge, (mortgage),  that many of us are unable to get out from under. Today, one in every ten homes is vacant because someone was unable to fulfill their pledge to the bank and lost their home.

Compound interest is the concept of adding accumulated interest back to the principal, so that interest is earned on interest from that moment on. The act of declaring interest to be principal is called compounding (i.e., interest is compounded). A loan, for example, may have its interest compounded every month: in this case, a loan with $100 principal and 1% interest per month would have a balance of $101 at the end of the first month.

Another example of compounding interest is this; what would you rather have, one million dollars or a penny doubled every day for the next thirty one days? Take your time…. Grab your calculators…. Give up?

After thirty one days you would have, ten million, seven hundred thirty seven thousand, and four hundred eighteen dollars, and twenty four cents.

Now back to our 200,000 dollar mortgage. It will take you twenty one years before you make it to the half way point of your mortgage. Twenty one years of your hard earned money going to the bank. After twenty one years of payments, you will still owe the bank 100,000 dollars. Do you think the bank understands how compound interest works? They do and you pay them interest, lots of it. As a matter of fact, after thirty years of monthly payments to the bank of 1199.10, your death pledge, oh, I mean your mortgage; will have cost you 231,677 dollars. That’s why it will take you thirty years to pay that mortgage off. Your 200,000 dollar mortgage will have cost you 431,677 dollars by the time it is all over. You will have bought one home, but you paid the bank for two. That just doesn’t sound right to me.

Our economy is changing. The more we understand how debt and interest work, the better we will be able to secure our financial situation, and learn to live debt free. Yes this is a fact that thousands of Americans are learning and living debt free, through United First Financial.  How about you? Continue to follow this blog and we will discuss ways to achieve this goal. The good debt that you should have, and getting rid of the bad debt and the interest that goes along with it. Instead of paying interest, let’s start using interest to our advantage and our benefit.

Financial institutions want to keep you and me in debt. They don’t want us to learn how money really works. They don’t want you to know how compound interest works, because the longer they can keep all of us in the dark about money, the more of yours they get to keep.

As you can see, interest is a very much needed element in our economy today. We pay it, and we earn it but it is what keeps our economy working. As consumers, or entrepreneurs, we all need to learn every aspect of what interest is, and how it works. It can be the defining line on whether we succeed or fail.

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Dealing With Emotional Factors Leading To Debt

Why Does It Take So Long For Me To Pay Off My Debt…And
How Can I Speed It Up?
There are many reasons why your debt seems to be ongoing for a lifetime. Many of the
following reasons may be familiar to you, things you have said to yourself, your
spouse or others. Perhaps you will see something here that will trigger a new thought
pattern in the approach to becoming debt free.
What’s Your Plan?
Most people, although well intentioned, have absolutely no plan for becoming debt free. They
may occasionally pay an extra $10, $20 or more on a particular debt thinking what a large
difference that will make. That is a good move but it’s the perfect example of the
proverbial drop in the bucket.
A good plan includes many components. Some, and I repeat myself, some of the components
are:
· Determine the amount of discretionary income you have to work with each month.
· Know every detail about each debt you have. Some of these details are the rate you
are paying on each debt, whether the debt is revolving or installment in type, balance
on each debt, length of time or payments remaining on each debt and whether the debt
has a fixed rate or is an adjustable rate. This will be discussed in later chapters.
· Determine a strategy. Which debt is first, 2nd and so on until you are debt free. This is
computed using Factorial Math. This requires a computer program or a plan that
includes Factorial Math within that program. This will be discussed in later chapters.
· Get educated on strategy. Debt payoff strategies are not “one size fits all.”
· Find out where your mortgage fits into your plan since interest is calculated in a
different manner than your other debt.
· Think “long term.” You didn’t get into debt over night and you certainly won’t be able
to get out overnight.
· Increasing income and reducing outgoing fits will help you but certainly is not
enough to bring the results you are searching for. It is a component of a good plan,
not the total answer.
It’s enough to make you want to drop your pencil, put away your calculator and go
outside in the sunshine and feel the fresh cool breeze on your face isn’t it.
Unfortunately, that’s what most people do. They give up before they ever get started. Therein
lies the problem with why most people don’t have a plan today.
It’s just the way it’s supposed to be.
Our first experience with debt comes to most of us between the ages of 16 and 18 years of
age. It’s called “our first car.” Although we may have a job after school and during the summer
there just isn’t enough income to pay cash for the car and insurance coverage. After all, if I
were to pay cash I might have to save for a year or more to get enough money to pay for both
the car plus a year’s insurance. After all, there are clothes to be bought. There’s money
needed for fun and trips and all around good times to maintain ones social status. What if the
car breaks down? I’ll need money for repairs.
Enter Mom and Dad or the Grandparents who either co-sign or front the money for the
car. Often times, Mom or Day will take on the loan assuming that we will honor our word and
make regular payments each month. What quite often happens next is a scenario many of
you may already have experienced so I won’t go into that here. Even if you haven’t
experienced it yet you still know what comes next.
So here we are age 16 to 18 with our first debt. We make the first 3 payments on time then
something comes up and we need the money and skip the 4th payment. Our payments start
getting sporadic and so it goes until we either get the car paid off or Mom and Dad just
give up and pay it off.
Now we’re 21 or older and we have our first credit card. We manage to maintain that card
somehow and we get a 2nd card. As we get older we acquire more cards. We marry, increase
the joint incomes and get more cards and more cars and more stuff for the happy
home (plus babies) and one by one the debt mounts.
Years pass – we decide “Hey, we don’t need all these payments, all this debt” but we
rationalize that we are, after all, doing what everyone else is doing so that’s just the way it has
to be. “We’ll pay everything off when we get the raise or the better job.”
When 5 to 10 more years have passed we then resign ourselves to the fact that being is debt
is simply the way everyone lives their lives and we will be in debt forever after all, how could
we possible get all this debt paid off. It’s just the way it’s supposed to be.
Let me say that there are ways to accomplish complete debt freedom without sacrificing your
lifestyle.
Availability of Credit
Until recently, the availability of credit was a contributing factor to why we rack up so much
debt. For most of our lives we’ve come to expect one or more envelopes in the daily mail
offering us additional credit cards or some type of additional credit. You passed on some and
accepted others. Over the months and years the credit cards in your wallet or purse grew to a
surprisingly high amount along with your available credit.
Some obtained new credit to help manage and pay for existing credit going down a road with
the brick wall at the end. At this writing, credit is difficult to obtain. We are forced to utilize and
live on the credit we have. Some people with equity lines have had their lines frozen. We now
need to manage more payments with the same or less amount of income, not a pretty
sight.
The thought of becoming debt free sometimes becomes hard to imagine when one is juggling
so many payments. I would like to tell you that you should remain hopeful, do your
research, and watch for more information from us regarding the methods and
possibilities for becoming debt free. If you are motivated and persistent you can live a
debt free lifestyle.
Should you be offered new credit, do not accept it. The thought of new credit may seem to be
helpful at first but just remember; new credit was a contributing factor in bringing you to where
you are today.
I trust my bank.
Oops! “When we really needed that new car our bank or credit union gave us our very own
great low interest loan. They really did us a favor!” If that’s not what you said, I would guess
that it is what you thought at one time or another. You may or may not have actually needed
that new car. I say that simply for your consideration. You may have needed it; then again,
you may have simply wanted it.
In any case, the bank or credit union thought it was a good idea so let’s do it, right. I’ve been
there. Perhaps we all have. Its so easy. Lending institutions have slowly convinced us
that debt is normal and just a part of being a good American.
We are bombarded with ads for more debt through TV, newspapers, the Internet and by mail.
There’s so much media coming at us constantly we begin to believe that it’s “normal” to be in
debt for most, if not all our lives.
It’s our responsibility to look beyond the advertising at the big debt picture and begin
perhaps even with baby steps to filter this out. This is one of the first steps to acquiring a
mindset that it really is possible to be debt free.
Principal and Interest
Compound Interest, simple interest, amortization, fully amortized, and many other financial
terms will not be discussed in detail here. There will be some discussion of these in other
chapters but just a reminder, our purpose is to leave you with the hope and the
knowledge that it is possible to live debt free.
In a perfect world, what if you could cancel all the interest off of all your debts? Every
dollar you paid would reduce principal. How long would it then take you to pay everyone off?
It sounds great doesn’t it? We all know that it isn’t a perfect world but, what if you could
cancel forever a large portion of your interest charges on your debt. How great would that be?
Hold that thought as you read the rest of this book.
We Need Help!
Think back from your elementary school days through college. How many of the students
were really good at math in any given math class. Not many right. Formulating a plan for
becoming debt free is a struggle for the best of us, even those who have always
thought they had the gift of mathematics.
Without a computer and the proper software it is impossible or nearly impossible for the
average person to devise a plan, work that plan on a monthly basis is such a way as to stay
on target for becoming debt free. Going back to school won’t get it done. Buying a book won’t
get it done. Neither will listening to the financial media gurus. While all this good information,
very little of it ties together for you, so you remain stuck, head in hands with a figurative
question mark above your head.
Do we have the answer? Well, yes we do. In fact, there are several ways which we will
share with you. We will also share the ultimate strategy that we have found to work in the
fastest way possible. First, we will break down debt and all that it entails. Then, we will give
you a better understanding of debt, what it is, how we arrive at a life of servitude because of
debt, but most of all, we wish to give you hope and instill the knowledge that you don’t need to
spend the rest of your life suffering under that debt servitude. Don’t worry. We will offer you
the solution. We wouldn’t want you to be left in the dark. Just hang in there and keep
reading. You’re already making progress by thinking about your problem in a new light.
OK, I got all that. So what do I do next?
At this point we want you to simply understand that you don’t have to remain in debt for
the rest of your life. There are ways to become debt free with grace and ease without
disturbing your lifestyle to any great extent.
In order to adopt this way of thinking you will need to accept what I like to call a Paradigm
Shift. Think about it. We are asking you to go from thinking, “debt to the grave is normal,” to “I
can live most of the rest of my life debt free.” Wouldn’t you call that a Paradigm Shift?
So, start imagining your life debt free. What would you be able to do with the income you
are receiving right now if it wasn’t all going out the door to pay off your debts? How
would it feel to have the peace of mind that comes from owning your own home free and
clear? It’s OK to start thinking this way because we are going to show you how to realize
those dreams in less time than you probably think.

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What Can We Learn From Grandma and Grandpa To Help Us Today?

Ever wonder why all of the old sayings that Grandma and Grandpa repeated over and over
were about money? I think they were trying to teach us something.
• A penny saved is a penny earned.
• An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
• Waste not, want not.
• Mind the pennies and the dollars will take care of themselves.
• Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.
• One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.
They lived in a different world with few conveniences, but they worked hard to pay for
things and stay out of debt. Why?
In their day, money was not stable. The stock market crashed. Banks were closing their
doors and leaving people with nothing. The most important thing to them was owning things
free and clear. They would rather work and save to be able to buy something outright than be
in someone else’s debt. And, that’s exactly what they did. They would save even when there
was zero interest.
They’d stuff money in their mattress, bury it in the yard at night, and hide it inside the
walls of their houses. Then, when they had enough they’d go and buy that car or horse or
tractor they needed. If they needed a home, they’d build it. If they needed food, they’d grow
it. If they wanted anything, they made sure they had enough money to pay for it. They’d find
things that other people had thrown out and they’d repair them for their own use.
Let’s compare that with today’s world. How would we change those sayings to fit this day and
age?

How Grandma’s Advice Would Read Today
• A penny saved is spent the next month.
• An pound of cure is more convenient and I don’t have time for prevention.
• Waste all, want all.
• Ignore the pennies and pretend there are dollars in the bank.
• Use it once, throw it out, get it new, and always pout.
• One man’s trash is another man’s trash.
In times past, whenever the younger generation ignored the advice of the older generation, it
usually ended up in a sad mess, and the younger generation was left wishing they had
listened. We have a lot to learn from those who came before us. Why not start with their
views on money and admit that they had it figured out. They knew what they were talking
about.
To start with, we need to spend less than we earn. Whether we have a large or a small
income, the amount of money we spend each month should be less than that. As long as we
spend less than we earn, we will always be wealthy. If we spend more than we earn, we
will always be poor.
In 1920, very few homes were mortgaged. Now, very few homes are owned free and clear.
Most homes have a mortgage these days. In fact, it’s just assumed when you buy a home
that it will be financed. Until recently, there were zero down loans. We didn’t even save for a
down payment. Now the mortgages aren’t just for 10 or 15 years, they are for 30, 40, and 50
years. There are mortgages that people wouldn’t ever be able to pay off in a lifetime.
Years ago–they would have been unheard of.
People used to make their own soap, bread, clothes, and furnishings. Now, we pay other
people to do all that. It is very rare to find anyone making anything from scratch–even meals.
Even when we cannot afford to, we pay a high price for conveniences. Nowadays, we are
hard pressed to find the makings of these things. Fabric stores have gone out of business all
over. It’s hard to find the ingredients for soap and woodworking tools are not as easy to find
as they once were.
Even though it’s hard to do, we could probably save a little money by doing more
things ourselves and sacrificing a few conveniences. Not that we have to go back to the
olden days and make our own soap, but having a mindset to simplify our lives and do more
for ourselves can add up to quite a bit of savings. For instance, do we really need 500
channels that we can’t find anything to watch on, or can we live with the basic plan?
And speaking of TV, children used to play outside and use their imaginations to invent their
own games. Now, they sit in front of television sets and play electronic games. They have
their own cell phones before they even begin middle school. Instead of passing notes in
school, they are texting each other. Our world has become very high speed, fast moving, and
gadget filled. Now, many of those gadgets are nice, but if we can’t afford them, they
aren’t making our lives any easier because we have to work harder and longer to pay
the bills each month.
So, the things our grandparents said were actually good advice. We can learn a lot from
them. We can prepare for tough times by saving money. We can put away a little at a time.
If we don’t need something, we don’t have to buy it. And, we could save money by making
more things for ourselves and only buying what we need. We could stay home and eat in
more than we go out. We could learn to do more for ourselves, like fixing our cars, cooking
home made meals, and learning new skills. We can also barter for things we need and trade
for things we have or skills we know.
We can also put away food, clothing, money, and supplies for times when we may not have
enough. We can repair things when they break instead of throwing them out. We can also
look for higher quality items at thrift stores and garage sales rather than buying overpriced
junk just because it’s new.

Ways Grandma and Grandpa’s Advice Can Help:
• Save Money
• Only Buy What We Need
• Stay Home and Eat In
• Do More For Ourselves
• Barter Goods and Services
• Grow a Garden
• Learn To Do Without
• Do Our Own Repairs and Work
• Can Our Own Food
• Sew Our Own Clothes or Repair When They Get Worn
• Save Clothes, Food, Money and Supplies for a Rainy Day
• Shop Thrift Stores and Garage Sales
• Repair Things When They Break Instead of Throwing Out
The next book will cover the emotional factors that keep people from being successful
when they try to follow this advice. We will talk about ways to pay off debt and get closer
to being debt free with the ultimate plan for debt reduction, using common banking tools and
computer programs available right now.
The first step is to get our budgets and our spending in control. Then, we can work on the
debt. By lowering our spending, it is like getting a raise. We have more income that we can
use. This gives us power to get rid of debt in an extremely quick manner, when the tools
discussed in these books are utilized in the ultimate strategy, which will be revealed later.

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“There’s Nothing Fun About Debt” Book 1

Brian Gosur, Thomas Chandler, Amy Boyack,  Jeff Polhill, Linda Adleen Carpenter, Sherry Balcom, and Bill Beavers

Nothing Fun About Debt Series

Book One–There’s Nothing Fun About Debt

• If Debt Is a 4-Letter Word, Why Do We Have So Much…And What Can You Do To Get Rid Of Some?
• Have You Ever Thought Life Would Be Easier Without Money?
• What Can We Learn From Grandma and Grandpa To Help Us Today?

Book Two- Emotional Factors

• Why Does It Take So Long For Me To Pay Off My Debt…And How Can I Speed It Up?
• Does Everyone Want To Be Debt Free…Why Aren’t They Doing It?
• Why People Hold On To Their Debt… And How To Let Go.

Book Three–Getting Rid Of Debt…What is involved?

• What Are The Components, And Types Of Debt… And Some Ways To Get Rid of Each Type Of Debt.
• How Do You Get Into Debt…And How Do You Get Out?
• Your Credit Score And It’s Effect On Your Debt.
• How Do Your Taxes Fit Into Your Present And Future Debt Picture?
• How Do You Pay Off Debt…FAST?

Book Four–Using Banking Tools To Get Out Of Debt Part 1

• Things You May Or May Not Know About Checking Accounts, And How They Can Help You Get Out Of Debt.
• Amortization…Understanding A Key To Getting Out Of Debt Quickly.
• Debt And Your Home’s Equity…What Options Do You Have?
• 
  Secrets About Interest That Can Save You Money.
• FDIC Insurance…Are You Protected?

Book Five–Using Banking Tools To Get Out Of Debt Part 2

• Loan Modification Strategies To Help You With Debt
• Mortgage Financing Made Easy
• Short Sale Strategies And Overview
• Putting It All Together…The Ultimate Way To Get Out Of Debt In The Fastest Way Possible!

This book is a collaborative effort of like minded folks that work in the financial services industry. We know the burden debt places on everyone. We wanted to offer you information that would bring alternatives and hope. We want you to know there are things you can do to change your debt picture for the better. Most of these things are well within your grasp. We hope you will enjoy this book.

Disclaimer: All opinions expressed in this book are the opinions of the authors and should not be taken as anything more than that. This book provides information about debt and finances designed to help readers better understand the financial issues surrounding debt. But financial information is not the same as financial advice — the application of information to an individual’s specific circumstances. Although we have conducted research to better ensure that our information is accurate and useful, we insist that you consult a financial expert if you want professional assurance that our information, and your interpretation of it, is accurate. To clarify further, you may not rely upon this information as financial advice, nor as a recommendation or endorsement of any particular financial understanding, and you should instead regard this book as intended for entertainment purposes only.

Section 1: There’s Nothing Fun About Debt

Chapter 1: If Debt Is A 4-Letter Word, Why Do We Have So Much…

And What Can You Do To Get Rid Of Some?

There’s nothing fun about debt. When we’re looking for people to date or finding a mate, we definitely don’t look for someone who’s strapped with bills and having a tough time making payments each month. Imagine a reality show where beautiful contestants compete to be chosen to marry the guy burdened by debt in the end. It wouldn’t be a sizzling success like “Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire?” In fact, I’m sure they’d be hard pressed to find anyone willing to participate as contestants.

Debt is not a word that conjures up happy images or pleasant feelings. We don’t like talking about how much debt we have. We certainly don’t want our friends to know our debt situation, and the bigger and deeper the problem gets, the more we try to avoid talking about it.

We’ll spend our last dollar on a gift to give at a wedding or a dinner to treat our friends just to look like we don’t have any financial problems at all. Then, charge our groceries on our credit card because we ran out of money and had lots of month left. I know it sounds familiar. We’ve been there, too. Remember, money is always there, but the pockets change.

There are reports about the increasing debt in our country and we all see that the problem is huge.

“I went to an ATM today, and it asked to borrow a twenty till next week.”

But seriously, the economy is in worse condition than it has been in for a long time. The market is terrible.

This market stinks so bad …that on my drive home yesterday there was a guy at an intersection with a sign that read, “Will manage your money for food”.

And, even with the many people trying to educate and warn us about the dangers of debt, 

we still continue to spend. Why don’t we just go on a budget and fix the problem? Shouldn’t we be able to spend less and get out of debt without too much effort?

Well, unfortunately, that is one of the dangerous lies that we tell ourselves to make it seem like debt really isn’t such a big problem. We think we can handle it on our own and we tell ourselves that we can stop and pay it off anytime we want. Kind of the way an alcoholic or smoker rationalizes they can quit anytime. In fact, it’s not much different because shopping addictions are much the same as any other addictions. We spend money we don’t have on things we don’t need and sometimes don’t even want.

Although men and women spend for different reasons, they both spend because it feels good initially. We get addicted to that good feeling we get when we spend money.

Why women spend:

· feels good

· addiction

· low self esteem

· need to look good

· family needs (food, clothing)

· paying bills

· impress other women

· save money

I heard about a woman who was seen sitting in front of a mall, holding a cardboard sign that read, “Help! I am addicted to shopping.” While this seems funny at first, it is actually quite sad when we realize how many of us are falling prey to the addiction of emotional spending.

What’s considered enough money? Just a little bit more. ~Will Rogers

Women tend to spend money on things their family needs, like food, clothing, piano lessons, etc. They can rationalize spending hundreds of dollars if it will benefit those they love. After all, clothing, shelter and food are needs, right?

They also spend money on looking good. They pay to get their hair and nails done. They pay for weight loss products. They buy lots of makeup, hair spray, hair care products, and other things to keep up their image. There is such a competition among women to be the best looking, best dressed, skinniest, most put together woman on the block.

Women also buy things when they’re on sale. How often have you heard a woman come home from a shopping spree bragging about how much money she saved?

Women are also in charge of getting the bills paid and keeping up to date on financial obligations many times. This is not always the case, but many times, women feel a responsibility to get the bills paid. While it is better for couples to work together on finances, it has been our finding that usually one or the other has their hand in the finances more than the other.

A woman proudly told her friend, “I’m responsible for making my husband a millionaire.”

“Well what was he before he married you?” the friend asked… “A billionaire.”

Since women are so emotional and spend for emotional reasons, it is important to address those emotions and deal with them head on. We will give you some practical information in this book that may help you to accomplish that.

While women get addicted to buying clothes, makeup and food, men tend to buy vehicles, gadgets, and more toys. You may have heard the saying, “The only difference between men and boys is the price of their toys.” While it is a funny saying, it rings true for a lot of us. Let’s look at why men spend.

Why men spend:

· feels good

· addiction

· gadget lovers

· hobby oriented

· latest and greatest

· power and prestige

· paying bills

· recreation

· help others (usually their children)

· midlife crisis

Men tend to buy more gadgets and toys because they are more hobby oriented. They want the latest and greatest stuff to show their friends they can keep up with all the new stuff. It’s fun to be the one to show everyone else the newest gadgets and have them instantly respect you.

Men are more concerned with recreation. They will pay for camping trips, vacations, and nights out with the family. They will also help their children or others who are in trouble by giving them money.

There’s also the issue of a midlife crisis, leaving men to feel like they need to do something with their lives. They wake up one morning, needing to buy a new sports car or do something important. While we laugh at this, it is a real emotion that needs to be addressed. To the man going through a midlife crisis, it is no laughing matter.

Whether you’re a man or a woman, there’s a common thread of why we spend. It feels good.

No matter what emotions we are feeling, we can always make it better with more toys, the right fishing rod, or a night out…or so it seems. If we’re sad, we’ll spend all kinds of money because we need a lift. If we’re angry, we’ll spend money to calm down.

If we’re happy, we go out to celebrate. If we’re bored, we head to the store. If we feel guilty, we buy something to distract us from the guilty feelings or to buy gifts for those we have hurt.

“Therapy Shopping” is becoming a major addiction in America as well as other countries around the world. That is the practice of buying something to feel better. It’s giving yourself therapy through shopping.

Debt is another addiction, especially in bad economic times. People will go out just to go out. They fill a void because they bought something they’ve been wanting. Consumer debt is something that businesses enjoy getting people into because it makes them money. Cigarettes and alcohol sell really well in any economy. Movies and pizza are always doing well. While it seems like nobody is out shopping in a bad economy, it seems that everyone is eating out.

Many times, it seems innocent because we rationalize it away. We tell ourselves things like, “this will help me feel better”, or “I deserve this”, or “I can afford to buy this because…”

Although the problem of overspending is a major problem, it is often a symptom of a much deeper problem, emotionally. Usually, there is some kind of a need to feel that we’re good enough. We feel that we’re not good enough because of some hurt that we experienced and we try to fill that hole with stuff. We feel that if we have more stuff, we’ll be a better person. Often, there are marital problems, such as a lack of communication, or a lack of emotional connection and this can spill over into a spending problem.

This spending problem is only a symptom of the deeper emotional wounds that exist from the poor marriage or the hurt from the childhood, or whatever else is hurting us emotionally. If we do not take care of the deeper problems, then we will not be strong in the emotional moments when we feel the urge to spend. The debt will not be taken care of unless we can deal with the underlying cause.

Once we deal with the underlying emotions that are driving the overspending, we can deal with changing those poor habits that we have developed and fix the financial picture.

We will probably need tools that will help us to look at the finances realistically and see the impact that our financial decisions are having on our future.

For instance, it would be good to have a tool that would allow you to compare the years that it will take to get out of debt with the purchase and without the purchase we are considering. If we have decided ahead of time to always sleep on a financial decision that would impact our budget more than $200 or some set limit, we can have a better chance at success. By trying to look at things rationally and with a support group, and financial tools to help us evaluate the soundness of our decisions, we will be more likely to be able to see the true picture of what we’re doing, however hard that may be to face.

Spending money for emotional reasons can make us feel better initially, but in the long run, it brings other feelings that are depressing. It can ruin us financially and cause problems that do not easily go away. People who have overspent may be faced with bankruptcy, eviction, repossession, and foreclosure. There is also the embarrassment and shame that comes with being unable to qualify for credit and pay your bills.

People who are burdened by debt often feel hopeless, depressed, worthless, and angry. They may feel that the situation is not fair and that they don’t deserve to have so many problems and bills. There may have been extreme circumstances out of their control that got them into trouble such as a medical condition or a disaster of some kind such as the loss of a job or a major accident. Or it may be due to poor spending habits. This loss of hope and depression can lead to feelings of despair and an inability to face the problem. Many people get so frustrated that they stop trying to find a solution, figuring that debt is just a part of life and they go on spending money that doesn’t exist.

Others feel that the problem isn’t so bad because they can afford their payments. However, they are in denial. If they truly look at the problem, they will realize that their entire paycheck is going toward interest and only a very small portion of it is actually paying off their debt.

In dealing with denial, it is important to get an accurate picture of all the debt, all the income, the spending habits and the cash flow. Then, analyze this to find out how long it will take to get out of debt in the current situation. Many times, a financial analysis is free and can help to show small changes that can be made to dramatically change the situation over time.

Whether you’re single or married, too much debt can have a major impact on your life. Let’s look at the differences in how singles and families are affected by debt.

How Too Much Debt Hurts Families:

· Less Money for food for the entire family

· Harder to pay bills

· Everybody feels the impact when there’s no money

· Stress on kids and spouse

· Possibly have to move the family if you lose home

If you’re in a family situation, the financial problems you’re experiencing affect your whole family. There may not be enough money for food, so the whole family goes hungry. The bills become harder to pay and the family may not be able to do the things they want to do. Everyone feels the impact of the hardship. This stresses out the whole family, including the children. There may be a loss of a home and everyone would have to move or find another living arrangement (sometimes moving back in with grandparents). When a family is involved, the whole family feels the stress from the financial burden.

How too much debt hurts singles:

· Nobody to fall back on for second income

· Responsibility can be overwhelming

· May affect other family members

Just because someone is single, doesn’t make their situation any easier. Sure, they are the only ones suffering unless there are other family members in the household, but that also means they don’t have anyone to fall back on for an extra income. The responsibility can be overwhelming and lonely. There are no safety nets and the person may feel vulnerable and upset.

No matter what family arrangement you are living with, debt can be very stressful and upsetting. Make sure to take time to strengthen relationships with family members and friends at this emotionally trying time.

By looking at the facts and stepping back and acknowledging the emotions and habits that have gotten us into trouble, we can face our fears and overcome the addictions that have caused the problems. Will it be easy? Well, probably not. I’ve never known an addict who quit their bad habits without any problems or work. I’ve known addicts who have quit, but it has always required work and an honest look at their problem.

I guess the question is, do you want to get better and have a financially secure future without the worry of bills and creditors, and be able to keep more of your income for yourself, or do you want to continue on the path that you’re already on, which could spiral downwards out of control and lead to bankruptcy, eviction, repossession, and foreclosure?

I hope you want to choose the path that leads to the higher plane. Living a life free of guilt and worry about money matters is a great goal and can be achieved with careful planning. If you have read this and still have an open mind, it means that you are ready to make some changes and admit there is a problem, which is the first step to recovery.

So, congratulate yourself on this first step, but not by buying something. Celebrate by not buying anything. Celebrate by doing something free. Go for a walk or listen to your favorite music and dance a little. You’ve done the first step. You’ve analyzed your life with an open mind and come to some realizations that will help you on your journey. Write them down.

Throughout this book and in our other books, we will give you tips and unlock secrets to help you get out of debt. We refer to programs and tools throughout these books that can be used for the ultimate in debt reduction strategies. In the end, we will reveal what our favorite plan is, but it is important to understand the underlying concepts so you can plan your own strategy, since no two families or their debt situations match exactly.

Let me leave you with a short video that I hope puts a smile on your face and little laughter in your heart.  Please clink on the link.                                       uffstevemartinvideo

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Emotions and Money

Are you an emotional person? How about your emotions and money?

We usually tie emotions to the women in our lives, and sometimes that is true. Women go through physical changes every month and those changes can bring on emotions that are sometimes hard to live with, let alone try to understand them. But men…..we can be emotional too.

Guys, do you like sports?

I love sports. Especially hockey, and right now the NHL playoffs are being played, and my beloved Detroit Red Wings have advanced to the Stanley Cup Finals and will play the Pittsburgh Penguins, a repeat of last years finals. They took four of five games from the Chicago Blackhawks, in a very tough series. Two of the original six teams that started the NHL, played for the right to advance to the Stanley Cup Finals. Great hits and some great hockey.

Whoooo…. See! I am getting all emotional just thinking about it. Emotions are on both sides of the fence. We just can’t say women are emotional creatures, because, men,… we are too.

Now. What about emotions and money? Do we get emotional when it comes to our money? We sure do. Let me tell you what I mean.

What do you do men, when your wife comes home and tells you how much money she saved today, and all you see are bags of clothes and shoes that she wants you to help her bring in from the car.  She starts to tell you about all the sales, and how much she saved on those shoes, and the matching purse for this outfit was also on sale. You scratch your head and start to do a slow burn. Are there emotions starting to flow? Yes they are.

But wait a  minute guys. What did you say to her about that new fishing rod that you just bought last week? Or what about that new driver that you have to have to help you improve your game so you can finally beat the snot out of Jim, who is always just a couple of lucky shots above you. Did she  get mad at you for spending the money? Did you defend your actions, as to why you needed and had to have these items? Were the emotions flowing? I bet they were.

We definitely have emotions attached to our money, and they are different by gender and person. I will think nothing of spending a lot of money on something that I think is important and my wife will do the same on what she believes is important.

It’s all a mind set. How I think and feel about money is totally different than how my wife feels, or my daughter, son or anyone else. But how I feel and think about money is going to definitely be the driving force behind how I use it.

I want you to sit down with a pad of paper and jot down what you would do if you had a ten million dollars. How would you use your new found fortune? What would you do first? We’ve all done this before, when you hear of someone who has just won the lottery. We get together with friends or co workers, and discuss what we would all do if we had all that money. You have fifty different people, you get fifty different answers. Write yours out and really give it some thought. Dig down deep into your soul for the answers. Then ask yourself…..Why?

Getting out of debt is getting the right mindset and thinking process about money. Once you know what your emotions are concerning money, then we need the right mindset, and plan to get back on the right track. The way we think affects the way we act. Why do you think so many people who have won big cash prizes in the lottery end up broke. How could they go though all that money? What were they thinking?

I will have more to say on this next week. Do your assignment and I think you will be surprised at how close the answers to your debt are.

Sorry for the delay in getting this blog update, but I have been moving the last couple of weeks, and I hate moving. I can’t find anything, but it is finally coming around. Just had to get the right mind set, I guess.

Let me know what you think of money. What is important and how would you spend a ten million dollars? Write it out and tell me what you come up with.

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Debt! What About It?

DEBT! DEBT! DEBT! DEBT! DEBT! DEBT! DEBT! DEBT! DEBT! DEBT! DEBT!

Getting tired of that word yet? It’s just Debt! What about it?

That is a word that we are hearing a lot of today. The federal debt, state debt, bank debt, seems like everybody is in debt.

There are some people out there who aren’t in debt. They are out there, but they are far and few between. There are actually some people who don’t have a mortgage or a mortgage payment. They are probably your parents, grand parents, or aunt or uncle. Those are the people who learned, long ago, that they would bought a house, raise their kids, and live in it for the rest of their lives.

Not so today. The average person lives in their home for about five to seven years, and either moves to another home or refinances their current mortgage and gets locked into paying the bank a lot more interest  for another, long thirty years.

DEBT! Did you know the the last two years the national average of money that people are putting into their savings account is……ZERO! That’s right… I said zero. People are living paycheck to paycheck.  Nothing is going into our savings account. As a matter of fact, many people don’t even have a savings account.

But you know what is scary? People think this is OK. They think this is the norm. This is what we do. Buy things with money you don’t have so you can impress people that you don’t even like.

Do you know that there will be more people filing for bankruptcy this year then there will be people graduating from college? Now that is sad. That is real sad, but that is the state of our financial mode of thinking.

Everybody attaches emotion to their money. You want to get someones’ feathers ruffled, just start talking to them about money. Especially their money. The saying is, “don’t talk to people about politics and religion.” Well, you can toss money in there now also.

Now, I don’t mean to draw any barriers, but there is a definite line and perimeters to the way people think about money, and how they use it. Social class, religion, location, ethnicity, race, and gender. All these groups have a different emotional side to money and if we look at these emotions, I think that they will guide us to the answers of why and how we get into debt.

That is what this blog is about. I want to invite you on this journey with me to find the answers to the questions about our debt and how we can find the road to financial freedom… Can we?… Can we really learn to live debt free? Can we really get out of this mess and back on the road to prosperity? I want to find the answers to these questions and more, and I will need your help.

I too have struggled with debt most of my life. Living beyond my means. Wanting everything and wanting it now. Not worrying about the future or who would pay the price. Maybe, I am describing some of you.

Come with me on this journey. I need your input. I need your experiences and the way you coped with your debt. The ways that worked for you and the ones that didn’t.

I am co authoring a book, with six others, my business associates, and I would very much like to hear from you. Leave your comments, ask your questions, and give your advice.

I look forward to hearing from you all, and I can’t wait to travel this road with you.

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